Bigla Nalang Nawala?

MONDAY 08-11-11

Miss Shy: I just want to share you something. But, secret lang please? Kami na, kaso alanganin ako sa kanya. Love ko na sya pero baka panakip-butas lang ako sa ex nya.

A:  Confront him, not on text but personal. Pag nagkita kayo. It's hard at first pero pag nasimulan mo ng sabihin sa kanya yung thoughts mo, yun na simula nun.

M: Nawalan na kami ng communication. 3 days na. :(

A: Itext mo. Twagan mo. Okay lang magpakatanga ng 1 week. Pag walang response, humanap ka na ng iba. Simple lang ang buhay friend, tao lang gumagawang complicated.

M: Yun nga e. Ayoko na maghabol no. Tinext ko sya isang beses tama na yun.

A: It's up to you. But you know, sometimes, a guy will never love you back if ikaw mismo sa sarili mo, me doubt sa feelings nya.

M: Normal lang naman siguro na mag-isip ng ganito. hehe. Di naman nya alam na me doubt ako sa kanya. Baka ayaw na nya talaga? Di lang nya masabi.

A: Anong tingin mo sa mga lalake, manhid? Sa ginawa mo pa nga lang na isang text lang, tapos na, para mo na ring sinabi sakanyang di sya kawalan and you don't care kung di na sya magtext o magparamdam. Wag kang magpapahabol kung di mo kayang panindigan. Kasi pag di ka hinabol, ikaw din mismo masasaktan.

M: Ayoko na kasi maghabol e. I'm so tired chasing guys like what I did with my past boyfriends. Ayoko na maulit ngayon. Ako padin ba me pagkukulang kung tigilan ko na syang kontakin? Huling text ko sa kanya, "Me prob ba?" pero di nagreply.

A: In love, it doesn't matter kung sino nagkulang, o kung sino gumawa ng paraan para maging okay kayo. What matter is you do your best. Mapunta man sa wala yung relationship. Atleast di ka talo. Kasi nagmahal ka at naging totoo ka sa feelings mo. Yun lang un.

It doesn't matter what happened on your past. You may lost them but atleast natuto ka. Di na tayo bata friend. Di na tayo bumabata. We should learn by now what a relationship really means. Di lang yan puro hugs and kisses like hayskul. Di lang lahat sinasabi sa text. Merong totoong buhay maliban sa cellphone. You should tell him personally how you feel about him. Show it. Whatever he says, believe him without second thoughts. Kasi kung maghihinala ka, sino bang mahihirapan?

It's not that bad to be stupid when it comes to love. Just do what makes you happy. Don't think about what others may say. If it's not worth it, then it's not. Madaming next times. But it would not be exactly like before, pwedeng mas masaya o mas malungkot. You wouldn't know what will happen tomorrow so do now what you ought to.

M: Di ko na talaga alam gagawin. Parang gusto kong kontakin uli pero naguguluhan ako.

A: Kontakin mo na. 1 week. Ano ba naman yung 10 miss calls a day, 10 texts kung unli ka naman? Wag mong itanong kung me problema ba. Text mo ng good morning, good night, kain na, I love you. Ask him to go out. On 7th day pag di nagparamdam, sahihin mo, Last na to. Bye. Haha

That's what I always do when a boyfriend doesn't text or call me. And believe me, fifteen days akong naghahabol, nagpapakatanga. Tapos pag sinabi ko ng goodbye. Sinasabi ko di ako galit, nasaktan lang. Martyr? Maybe. But those three ex boyfriends who did that to me, nakipagbalikan months or years after. Remember? Pero di ko na binalikan. That's why I don't let go immediately. Because if I do, it's over forever. But, they're still my friends.

M: You amused me talaga. Gusto kong gawin kaso parang nahihiya naman ako.

A: Wala namang mangyayari kung mahihiya ka. Kung mas mahalaga ang pride kesa pagpapakumbaba, wala kang karapatang masaktan pa.

M: You really inspire me. Thanks. Sige gagawin ko yan bukas. Promise!

A: Kapag di mo ginawa bukas, don't talk to me again! I kid. But always remember, you're not doing it for me or him or anybody else. You're doing this for your own, to satisfy yourself. Atleast di man magwork, masasabi mong ginawa mo naman lahat. No regrets. In the end, it's his lost, not yours. :)

Pinoy street foods banat

Bastusan ba? Eto sample.

Para kang fishball, cheap mo kasi.

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Para kang suka ng sidewalk vendor, madami ng sumawsaw.

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Para kang siomai na tig-2.50, puro taba!

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Para kang isaw, full of shits.

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Para kang street foods, masarap pero madumi. Baka magkasakit lang titikim sa'yo.

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I'm not being mean, okay? I'm not thinking of anyone when I made this. It just came to me when I visit my bestfriend's wall on FaceBook 'cause he's so addicted to jokes and we love eating street foods together.

Nagmamahal,
Ariane